The Relationship Business

   Everyone, no matter who, wants to fall in love.  whether you believe that love is real of not, you want to at least experience something related.  People say that love is what we live for, it keeps us going in life.  The hope to find that one person to whom makes us feel complete.  It has been said that love is "one's recognition of its counter part in another."  Even nowadays, LGBT people even know what love is and believe nothing can stop it, not even judgment.
   I have seen many different sides to this so called Love.  Mostly has to do with how I was raised and how I seen love.  My parents divorced when I was only 6 months old so I never seen the love between them.  After that I seen anywhere from Forced love to getting along to live and lead a normal life.  Neither of my parents are affectionate with there spouses.  Although I have plenty of friends that wear there heart on there sleeve so to speak.  My best friend is a hopeless romantic.
   I was a daddy's girl until I got older and he got yet another divorce.  After that he became a little untrustworthy in my book.  He would leave  and not show back up for a couple days, or even a week.  He wouldn't call or anything.... He had someone else and he was just "killing time" with me.  I was 16, old enough to take care of myself.  I didn't need anything or anyone because I was a big girl and he had already taught me what I needed to know.  So I decided that I wanted to try love.   I mainly wanted to see if that would bring my father back, maybe a little protective father issues to stir up in there.  But it didn't happen.
   I believed it was real, and so did he.  We were amazing together and we thought nothing could ever change this feeling we had.  So when I brought him home to dad....he didn't care.  Instead of being the protective father, he became my boyfriends best friend.   It made me realize that I had the most maturity of the entire household.  He would call him up and say "hey why don't you come over for supper tonight and just stay with us."  yes stay with us as in, in the same house as your girlfriend.  So it was love, and it was great while it lasted.  But people change...sometimes for the good sometimes for the bad.  My boyfriend became my dad, the way he acted and treated me was the same as my dad was doing.  We lasted for almost 3 years and I had enough.
   Not only have I seen this stupid thing called love, I've experienced it.  And believe me, it is one hell of a roller coaster ride.  So when you call your gf/bf tonight, just think about it.... do you really love them? could you see yourself with this person for the rest of your life? Love is all powerful. and it does control your life.
  

Living, Loving, Caring

   I hate to be critical, but you don't know whats going on in a person's life.  Don't judge because you are alright. Because you know what? your not.  You once was just as angry, upset, or mentally confused as they were/are.  All people have pain in there lives.  Some just deal with it in different ways.  Yea, there are some people out there who like to show there emotions more than others. They are crying out for help.  I like to believe I am a strong person, unless we start talking emotions, then I shut off.  But not everyone can handle that.  They need a release.  and for most, that is dressing, acting, or even saying there not ok.  Some would really like just for you to ask them if they were ok, because to them, it shows that there is someone who cares.  We all stand the same chance to get into heaven.  God, I'm sure, has plenty of wings for all of us to fit in and I'm sure he would love for all of us to come up there at once.  So stop bullying.  Stop Judging.  Stop criticizing people for what they do and who they choose to be.  Learn to help.  Learn to be kind.  We are here to help each other reach an ultimate goal, so lets do it.

People Understanding People

   Have you ever stopped and thought " I wonder what they are thinking?"  This happens to me on a regular basis.  It may be  weird or a little creepy, but I don't care.  People amaze me in the fact of how they can treat other humans so different depending on either looks, culture, or the life they live.  Just to clarify, God created us all in his image, his only rule? was for us to find the path we wanted to him.  Simple...free will. 
   People choose who thy want to be, why must we make fun of, or judge them?  We all are here for a purpose, otherwise, God woulda killed us off long ago.  I know I am stating the obvious, but why don't we see it?  what will it take to overlook yourself and start helping your neighbors?  People, we are all trying to make it down this road of life.  Everyone is going to run out of gas or lose a tire at some point.  Why not make it easier on yourself and others by lending a helping hand.  Stop judging. Stop criticizing. Stop putting down your own species... and remember... "your not that great either" 

On our wings

   As I sit here tonight I ponder on a few things. Life being of the up most importance of these, I wonder as to how we are to get along without friends in this world.  I know myself, I have at least two best friends as well as a handful of true friends.  You know a friend is one of Gods gifts to us.  They are responsible to help us through life, and pick us up when we trip or stumble.  They truly are human's guardian angels sent to watch over us.  I know for a fact that if it wasn't for my best friends, I wouldn't be here today.  They saved my life, and have given me a new outlook on the world and the people around it and us.  No one knows just how strong you are until you face something alone. That is the true test of strength, although, send me in with a friend and nothing will touch us.  A friend is someone who knows the song of our heart and sings it to us when we have forgotten the words.  To this I thank each and everyone of my friends. Because of you, I am Me....

Stand Up and do something!

         FDR was one of the most inspirational presidents, in my opinion, of all time.  You never know how far you'll go unless you at least try.  You'll miss 100% of the shots you don't take, well the same goes in life, if you hear opportunity knocking, don't ignore it, at least try to answer it.  I know I have failed at this more than once, although in my opinion, as long as the good outweighs the bad, we will always keep a positive attitude. I know that this sounds like a speech your teachers give you at the beginning of school, but is a very true statement that should be followed.  Stay positive and open the door...